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Transgender Identity in children

Transgender Identity in children

An insight on how it feels to be different at a young age

Many of us have somewhat of an idea of how it feels to be different. Maybe we have been bullied early on in our lives or have had difficulty getting along with our peers. But have you ever wondered how it felt to be a child feeling shut out simply because you were born in the wrong body? To be told at a very young age that you should not exist and that your identity must be what you were assigned at birth.

Many of these issues are experienced by a growing number of trans-identified children in our society at present time. Many are confused and afraid of how they feel based on their gender identity. There have been studies that children as young as 3 years of age have started identifying as the gender opposite of what they were assigned at birth, but all of that quickly can become tarnished with shame and fear by the judgement of parents. Fear can become isolating to the true identity of that child.

At a young age, children can become very anxious and stressed with out being aware of these feelings. A child’s mind is innocent, curious and craves knowledge of the unknown. For a child, there is no bias on whether it is better to be a boy or a girl, they just simply feel and identify as to what they feel they are. A recent story covered was of a 3 year old in Berkeley, CA named Thomas who had a speech impediment and he signed to himself, “I am a girl.”

Oh look, he’s confused,” his parents said. Maybe he mixed up the signs for boy and girl. So they signed back. “No, no. Thomas is a boy.”

Regardless of what gender Thomas was assigned at birth, and that he was physically male, the toddler felt that he is a girl. Even being bullied in school and teased by his peers, he simply told them that he will always be a girl and that’s what he is.  Such a strong and powerful statement coming form a child. Having to stand by what Thomas felt was the right gender he wanted to be identified as.

When children like Thomas insist that their gender identity is different from which they are assigned at birth, there becomes a disconnect between their sex (which is anatomy) and gender, which includes activities, roles, and behavior. Thomas’ parents have allowed her to live her life as a girl, raised her as a girl and has since been called Tammy. Tammy is now 11 years of age.

When children insist they are a different gender early on, for the parents there can be a lot of judgement and fear; it can send the family to a lot of confusion since transgenderism is clouded by a lot stigma, very misunderstood and are feared by many; This sends parents at a tough predicament for majority yearn for what is the best for their child.  As a protective mechanism, parents at most times are forced to apply those same fears and judgements towards their children who they feel is doing the wrong thing and having the wrong ideas.

Gender identity falls under a very wide and complicated umbrella. There are over 50 different gender identities today in which people can identify and use. Many also confuse gender identity with sexual orientation which are two different things. Gender Identity is who we are and sexual orientation is who we want to have sex with. Simple as that. In Tammy’s case, a 3 year old will probably not want to have sex with anyone, so her gender identity is clearly driven by who she naturally is.

As a society we must be open to new and endless possibilities. In order to truly crush hatred and stigma, we must support our youth for they are the future of this world. Like Tammy’s parents, they seen their child’s future as who she truly wanted to be. Gender maybe a very complicated and scary subject, but that is only because of the fear our society has generated with labels in regards to gender identity and sexual orientation. We must extinguish that fear and have an open mind especially for our youth. Let us be supportive of the next generation and take the next step in acceptancing a third gender:TRANSGENDER.

EXXXOTICA Ft. Lauderdale

Hi Guys! I am on my way back to Las Vegas from my EXXXOTICA trip in Ft. Lauderdale. I had such a great time at EXXXOTICA. I was able to meet more people inn the industry and I am really happy from all the love that were shown towards me by the industry. Some of the same people that were in EXXXOTICA Atlantic City were also in Ft. Lauderdale. People like Ron Jeremy who was such a sweetheart and actually came up to my booth to say “hello.” I also met superstar actress Roberta Gemma who is really popular in Europe. She is the equivalent to Tera Patrick in Europe and is so beautiful! I was really amazed on how much respect I got from the industry and the people at the expo.

 

I was only at the EXXXXOTICA event for 3 days because it was my birthday on the 4th. So my producer gave me the day off to check out Miami and take some time to relax. One of my old friends from Los Angeles moved to Miami and we were able to touch base and catch up. It was very nice to talk about the good old days of partying in Hollywood and the drama that comes with it. We had an amazing birthday dinner at a place called Prime Fish (I highly recommend this place if you are ever in Miami). My friend and I loaded ourselves on their bread which was the best bread I have ever had LOL. We laughed and stuffed our faces for a couple hours and he showed me his new pad which was right across the street. The older I get it seems the less I tend to celebrate my birthday. It seems it gets less exciting as I am about to hit 30. Yup I am 29 years old ( don’t worry I am not a MILF yet).

 

Many of you don’t know that I am more than just a contract star for Trans500 Studios, I also have become very good friends with producer/director of the studio, Josh Stone. Josh is the best and him and I ate at our favorite restaurant almost every day while I was in Miami. Josh and I love P.F. Changs and we both love the same dish, but I was trying out different dishes for the sake of being able to try different things and not having to order the same thing as him. I really hope I can move to Miami someday. I love my life in Las Vegas, but I can see myself in Miami in the near future. Especially now that I am building my portfolio as a homeowner.

 

I am very thankful for being a part of Trans500 studio family and my producer/director Josh Stone. There has been a lot of hatred from other studios towards Trans500 which is totally understandable, but all I can say is this studio has shown me so much love and respect and have accepted me as a part of their family. Trans500 has treated me more than just a talent that many studios have shown otherwise in this industry. Trans500 has really opened some doors for me in by introducing me to many mainstream people in the industry.

 

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The Fannys

Hello everyone and good morning. As I am getting ready for my run I decided to write about another upcoming award, The Fannys 2014. Yes! This award is entirely up to you guys and is in your hands (vote for me here). It will take place on 4.12.2014 at the EXXXOTICA event in Atlantic City, NJ Taj Mahal hotel which I will be attending April 11th until April 13th. Now, not to toot my own horn or anything but if there was a horn I would probably shove it up my ass for your enjoyment. There I said it so you better vote for me because you know my ass will swallow you if you don’t! Love you!!!!

 

http://thefannys.com/nominee/category/transgender-star-of-the-year/

 

 

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My shoot with Venus Lux

Me and Venus have been friends even before porn has taken our lives to another level of freakiness. We are both from San Francisco, CA and now we reside in Los Angeles, CA. I have to say that pornography has also brought us closer to each other ( I mean real close!) I never really knew that my old friend had a freaky side to her until we did our first scene together which can be seen on her solo site here

This scene is all directed by Venus. She wanted a fetish scene where we are both topping and dominating a male sub. But the scene turned out more freakier than expected. She ended up topping me as well
And both her and the male sub came all over me like the good slut that I am. I just love Venus’ cock, I love it’s size and girth. I also love the way it curves and just hits the right spot. When she fucks me I feel her hitting my spot and forcing my cum out of my cock. The scene started with me sitting in the living room disappointed and fretting over my boyfriend leaving me. Then Venus walks into the room with her slave walking on all fours. She explains to me that there is no reason to be stressing over men for men are only good for kne thing: SEX! I kind of agree with her so I quickly grabbed her slave and had him service my cock. I then bent him over and fucked him like a bitch. Venus and I started
Taking turns on his hole and then we both devided to punish him even more and just have him watch us make love to each other. I started to ride Venus’ cock while cuckolding her slave boy. He then cums all over me as he couldn’t contain himself. After he came Venus then cums all over his face. It was so hot and I love working with Venus! I am looking forward to working with her more in the future, I just can’t wait!

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